Oh, Margaret.

This Iron Lady and I share a birthday, which is pretty neat; even though she was born 61 years before I was, but that doesn't matter. I still like to think we share some similar talents. As of right now, I have no ambition of becoming a Prime Minister, but it sure sounds tempting to put some men in there place like she did. (That must feel really good to do.) What a powerhouse woman and a great role model to have. 

(If you have never seen the movie, The Iron Lady, I highly recommend you do.)

It's a Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown.

As if I don't have enough on my plate, I decided it would be fun to grow pumpkins; yes, pumpkins. Somewhere in my mind I wanted to make farming look good. (I know, I have issues.) So after a little begging and pleading, Cody said yes and a few months back we planted pumpkin seeds in our garden. Were hoping with a little nurturing and love, and lots of seven dust, our pumpkins will make their grand entrance in a few weeks. How fun! October is right around the corner, so these pumpkins better get busy!

SAHM Inc.

As most of you know, I have ventured off the beaten path and officially become a "stay at home mom." I feel so blessed to be given this opportunity, but I severely underestimated the work it takes to be a “full-time” mom. Seriously, how do these women do it?  
I quickly realized there are no quiet drives to and from work; there is no planning period, lunch breaks, and adult conversation with fellow teachers. This new job starts anywhere from 6 to 8 am and continues until Cody gets home. Oh by the way, I appreciate you now, more than ever.
 It is a tough job, but I love it.
Instead of receiving a monthly paycheck deposited into my account, I instead am payed with morning pajama parties, Micky Mouse Clubhouse TV shows, and warm smiles and giggles from a blond headed little boy.

 I love planning out my day’s adventures and knowing my buddy will be tagging along. I treasure the moments that I am present to watch Charleston’s talents unfold. I feel very blessed to have this time.

I would like to give a shout out to my husband for being gracious enough to give the go ahead on this new chapter. I know this is a short season of our lives and I thank him for being supportive. 

Simple Thanks

I would like to take some time out today and thank you guys for reading this blog and keeping up with the simple things that happen in my life. It means so much to have your support. You are the reason I keep this blog going and I truly appreciate your friendship and unwavering support. The Bunyards are so blessed to know you. Truly. 

Friendship is the golden thread that ties the heart of all the world.

John Evely

Soup for the Soul

Bluum Box

Okay, friends. I know I am very behind on blogging and I promise I have a Starbucks receipt somewhere with a scribbled list of topics that I hope to sit down and write soon; however, I just had to quickly share this link to this awesome website that is so nifty. I love, love, love getting happy mail and I hope Charleston feels the same. I am anxiously awaiting his first box from Bluum. Check it out!

Shine on Me

Carpe Diem

It is a great blessing to have wonderful friends who help keep me grounded and gently remind me to not take myself too seriously. Sometimes a busy mom needs to let her hair down and spend some much needed time with her very best friends.

Alex Ladner

Car wash anyone? I may need a second, or third job in order to finance my love for Mississippi art. I recently picked up a new piece from artist Alex Ladner. I think it is safe to say that I am impressed and slightly obsessed with his work. (I"m ready to buy my next piece!)

 No, seriously. I enjoy filling my home with artwork from local artists and fellow Mississippians. It makes me feel good about supporting them and their work. They receive funding for their talents and I get a good feeling for my purchase. It is a win-win in my book.
 

Coffee and Scripture

 I am thankful for many things, but two that are close to my heart on this Sunday morning consist of my first cup of really good coffee, in my favorite mug, and the ever faithful and powerful words and stories of Jesus. Now I give a lot of credit to coffee and its miracle workings, but you just can't beat the healing and fulfillment you receive from the bible. Good stuff.

Rainbow Baby

 

Somewhere over the rainbow skies are blue- 

and the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true. 

 After every storm there is a rainbow of hope.

Thinking of my sweet Boston today and thanking him for sending us the perfect little brother. 

I know they would have been quite the duo. 

Erin Condren is great, but..

Reverting back to my previous post about being more in the moment and living each day for what its worth, I feel this simply explains it all.
Despite the pressure from my Erin Condren planner to plan, plan, plan,- I am making the up most attempt at living for today. I have been given another day to be a wife to Cody, mom to Charleston, friend, mentor, daughter, learner, and teacher. What an amazing gift!

Keeping Up With the Jones's

I had the extreme pleasure of being invited and helping with preparations for Rebecca and Brandon's wedding. I must say it was absolutely stunning and one of the most beautiful weddings I have ever attended. Rebecca, a fellow teacher, is such a sweet and kind person. I had high expectations for what her wedding would entail. I can say she did not let me down. There was no detail overlooked and it was obvious the amount of love and preparation she put forth into making her and Brandon's day perfect. I loved the design of her ceremony and reception and appreciated hard work through incorporating her unique ideas and creativity into the little details of her weddings.

I think it was great how this couple incorporated their dog, Ezra, into the ceremony and I feel we are kindred spirits in how we have a heart for our four-legged friends. It takes a true dog lover to let your pup stand with you at the alter! 

It was also great to see Lisa Chapman, who is one of my favorite photographers. I am so impressed and in awe of her work so far, and I know the rest of the pictures will be fabulous. I was thrilled to hear the news that Rebecca chose to use Lisa for both her engagement session and wedding day photography. I think it is safe to say that she will not be disappointed in Lisa's work.

I wish you two many years of marital bliss and I look forward to hearing of your next adventures together!

Tough Critic

As I sit here and drink my coffee, I'm reminded of the harsh words I had to have with myself this week. It seems that I've put things off and justified them by doing "more pressing" chores, if you will. When really I should acknowledge the items at the top of the list and move on from there. ( I so sound like my mother.) So basically I had a Come to Jesus Moment with myself, and that's always real fun. I believe you are your own toughest critic and I need to be reminded of that sometimes.

Watch out world! I'm working on my to-do list. 

I was recently driving around and had an epiphany. (Why do these moments always seem to occur in the car?) I was reminded that I have a certain standard for how I want to live my life and the only person stopping me, is me. Whew! I feel like I should say an amen after that statement!
I'm not sure if I've mentioned this yet, but I'm off for the summer and will not be returning to work due to finishing a master's degree. So why not now? What is my excuse? I clearly have ample time and I need to cease the "I'll do it later" mentality and adopt a better since of urgency when it comes to those less appealing chores. I understand chores are not fun. If they were, they would not be called chores. Duh!
Obviously, this is not an easy conversation to have with yourself, but it’s better than hearing it from someone else. I’ll admit it is tough to acknowledge the fact that your procrastination is not only leading to disappointment with yourself but also those around you. Ouch. Those can be harsh words to hear, but sometimes necessary.
You know that cliché saying, don’t put off for tomorrow what you can today? Well, it is not so cliché after all.
So whether it is keeping the laundry caught up, trimming the bushes, or just simply completing a sewing project, I vow to try to be more in the moment and live for today; and not for tomorrow.
Yard work anyone?

Charlie Brown Knows Best

"Oh, hey mom. I am just doing a little reading before bedtime. 
 This Charlie Brown Christmas Story is really neat!"

Christmas should be celebrated year round. #christmasinjuly #sixmonthstogo

A Wrinkle in Time

You may have noticed a few changes happening around here; meaning the blog itself. After much thought, I decided to update my blog, other than its general aesthetics. Since its inception five years ago, my blog has been focused on being a new bride, the adventures of marriage and pregnancy, and, overall, the beginnings as Mrs. B.  Still, as Father Time would have it, those stories have been filed away in the past and I have found myself in a new season of life; a slightly more exciting and complex season.
All that said, I feel that Charleston is the next BIG journey of my life and my blog should reflect this. So why this title? Simply put, one of my favorite moments occurs in the very beginning of the day, the morning. I love to hear the stirrings of a sweet little boy coming from the monitor and feel the excitement and blessing of knowing we were given another day together.  I smile at the thought.
There have never been more precious words spoken in our home than, "Good morning, Charleston."

Ecclesiastes 3:1

Throwback Thursday

Oh goodness. I could shed a tear at the sight of these pictures! Look how small Jasper was at his first birthday celebration. (yes, we had a party and no, I am not ashamed to admit it.)
This curly-haired Maltipoo sure does hold a special place in our hearts and I am in disbelief that he will be five years old this summer.

Bookworm

I think Cody and I both agree in that as parents it is extremely important to model the love of learning and appreciation for books and literature. We were very blessed to have received so many wonderful, timeless books as gifts and Cody has since created a mini library for Charleston's room.

I can remember the excitement when my parents bought me a new book or gave me money to shop in the school's annual book fair. (You know you did too.) While my friends were buying posters, erasers, and other trinkets, I was agonizing over which which books to put in my basket and which ones to leave on the shelf. I wanted to take all of them home.
It is my hope that Charleston will experience the same excitement and seek the knowledge, solitude, and comfort that books have to
offer.

Wild Thing Philosophy

Sometimes I am amazed at the knowledge and revelations that are hidden within a children's book. I believe they are life's little treats- just waiting to be unwrapped and enjoyed.

These simple words are so relevant now that I have a little person in my life. I often find myself in complete awe of Charleston and it is a feeling that I would consume, if possible. I view children to be tiny pieces of heaven, in which they give us a glimpse of the goodness and unconditional love that is eternal.

Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

Lions, Tigers, and Bears- Oh My!

The Bunyards recently set off for Charleston's first trip to the Memphis Zoo. I have to admit that I have been anxiously awaiting this day for a long time. As a young girl, I remember imagining what it would it be like to bring my future husband and children to the zoo and show them my favorite parts of the park; although my imaginative family then falls way short in comparison to my handsome family now.

What a surreal moment it was to be in the moment, thank God for my blessings, and enjoy the beautiful weather with my sweet family!

April Showers

-bring May flowers.  And now, thanks to my hubby, I have my own, nifty potting station. Isn't is neat?
I'm really beginning to think there is nothing that Cody can not do. Seriously. Take this project for example. I sort of scribbled down some ideas of what I wanted and he designs something even better. It probably helps that he is an engineer and has way more vision than I ever will. Well, he may have the "vision", but I have the creativity; so I think were equally matched. Basically, I love that our talents compliment each other and we enjoy tackling projects while having fun completing them.

2 Timothy 4:17

Lately, I have been amazed and so grateful for the courage and strength that I have seen in myself. I feel as though I can conquer any task and accept whatever challenge, both mentally and physically, with a new perspective and, more importantly, grace. It is my hope that I will continue to develop a relationship with the Lord and allow him to rid any fear, doubt, or disappointment that I may have; and I have them. Everyday, He reminds me to look for the blessings he has provided and an opportunity to do good for someone in need. What a great Lord we serve indeed.

Christmas Tree Ornament?

I may be a tad bias, but isn't this the most handsome butterfly? I just love those tiny wings.
 I would like to give a big thanks to Faith Preschool Academy for creating these lovable mementos with Charleston. I will cherish these precious tokens forever. Now I understand why our childhood Christmas tree was always decorated with construction paper crafts. I'll just tuck this little guy away until tree decorating time rolls around.

Country Chic Wedding

Seriously, isn't this lady gorgeous? It makes me sick to think of all the talents this girl has and soon she can add fabulous bride to her list. I am so excited for Rebecca's upcoming nuptials to Brandon and even more giddy that I get to be present for all of the wedding events. Rebecca, you will look stunning in your dress and I will personally make sure that all of your wedding decor is just as you envision. You can call me Jessica Bunyard, event planner and coordinator. Hehe!

Long Awaited Proposal

I am so happy to announce the engagement of one of my dearest friends, Kayla. I have been anticipating this news since our friendship began four years ago. This is a long awaited event and I know she must be over the moon with joy and excitement. Kayla, Nathan is a great guy and you are blessed to share a strong friendship and I pray an even stronger marriage. I am so looking forward to your wedding festivities this year. Oh, and if your in the market for a ring bearer, I happen to know a very adorable little boy!

Jasper and Ruby

Sometimes I find myself in awe of the love that my family receives from these two furry blessings. Their love is unconditional and nonjudgmental and they are always waiting at the door to welcome us home. As I was never allowed a dog as a child, I now cherish my days with Jasper and Ruby and the joy they bring to my life. I am amazed at the healing a four-legged friend can give. Sometimes their wet puppy kisses are the best medicine.

Maroon Fridays

Fridays bring big smiles to the Bunyard house. Like most of the general population, we look forward to Saturday and Sunday all week long and we are quick to celebrate when it arrives. I love that Cody is carrying on the tradition of Maroon Friday, a custom of MSU, with Charleston. Luckily for both of these handsome guys, the color maroon suits them well.

Bare Necessities

Each day Charleston and I start our morning drive off by jamming out to the Disney Pandora station, naturally. It is just a short drive to his school, so I try to talk and interact with him as best as I can. These drives typically consist of me singing loudly along to the familiar tunes and Charleston cooing and babbling of some sort in the backseat. This particular morning, a familiar song from The Jungle Book came on and abruptly reminded me of the simplicity of life and to stop and be present in every moment. What a sweet epiphany to begin the day with! I always knew Disney was good for the soul. I hope this brings the same enlightenment to you as it did to me. Enjoy!

♪♪ Look for the bare necessities

The simple bare necessities

Forget about your worries and your strife

I mean the bare necessities

Old Mother Nature's recipes

That brings the bare necessities of life ♪♪♪

 

Look for the bare necessities
The simple bare necessities
Forget about your worries and your strife
I mean the bare necessities
Old Mother Nature's recipes
That brings the bare necessities of life
Read more at http://www.songlyrics.com/jungle-book-the-soundtrack/the-bare-necessities-lyrics/#zIjhEIHea4DSrrPh.99

Peace, Love, and Bunny Toes

There is just something angelic about baby toes, don't you agree? 

I have to give credit to Pinterest for the idea of this darling Easter craft. Cody and I had quite the experience painting Charleston's piggies and, for the most part, he didn't seem to mind. Ha! The trick was to paint the bottom of  his feet and then strategically place them on the green butcher paper without making a huge mess or jeopardizing the shape of each foot. I think they turned out great and I am a little sad that I can't keep this out year round. Oh well.

Peter Rabbit

The family ventured down the road to Cedar Hill Farms for a trip to see the Easter bunny.  I was personally impressed with the beauty of the property and the family friendly activities; of course, I'm always a sucker for cute farm animals.  We had a great time and I know I will always treasure these memories and this picture of our four month old boy sitting in the Easter bunny's lap. Happy Easter, friends and may your day be filled with faith, family, and fellowship.

Special Olympics

I was so honored to be invited to attend a paint party, hosted by Denise Tibbens, in support of the Special Olympics. I know it was for a great cause and I enjoyed meeting some truly wonderful people. Not only did I leave with a new treasure to showcase in my home, but also with a full heart and sense of awe in those parents who continuously fight for their children to be treated as an equal and ensure they are given every possible opportunity. You are a true inspiration my book. Thanks for the invitation, Denise!

Sniff, Cough, Sneeze, Cough

The Bunyard household has been hit with the dreaded cold; this should make for an interesting experience. Lysol anyone? Shopping list: Vicks, tissues, sanitizer, disinfectant, cold & cough medicine, saline solution, aspirator, and more tissues. 
P.S. We have since added a trip to the doctor, several dollars worth of prescriptions, and a shot to the rear. It is in these times that I find myself grateful for insurance.

Baby Bunnies

A big shout out to Pinterest for the idea to sew up a few sweet bunnies as happy gifts from Charleston to all of his baby buddies. It took the majority of a rainy afternoon and a few evenings after work to bring these treats to life, but I did it. Oh, and a nod of appreciation to my husband for his help in tracing and cutting out twelve bunnies.

Pinterest

Success! 

Monthly Snapshots

I think it is safe to say that I am WAY late in posting Charleston's monthly progress pictures. I had a well thought out plan about posting that adorable fellow on the blog each month, along with a description of his happenings, but I was naive and totally underestimated the demands of a newborn. So, now that baby is resting and I have a few moments of mommy time, I am going to freshen up the blog. Enjoy!

LOST- Week One

Just in case your interested, here is the link to Sunday's message. I love that I can go back and re-watch if I feel that I missed something, or if I just want to revisit the Pastor's teaching- interesting stuff, for sure. 

That's what I love about Sunday

What a blessing it is to have a wonderful church home and place of refuge. I am finding myself more and more dependent upon on my Sunday visits at Life Fellowship and I make an earnest attempt in absorbing every song, message, and detail during worship and the service in general. What an amazing feeling to feel so connected and  rejuvenated and then carry it with me throughout the week! I've said it before, but it seems that each week's message is exactly what I needed to hear to calm the storms in my life. I am so appreciative of Pastor Patrick and every single person who serves and welcomes my family each Sunday. I am sad that it took 25 years for me to find a church that spoke to me, but it was well worth the wait.

I so enjoyed this video message from a guest speaker at Life- Off course.

Motherhood

I can not express the number of
days and hours I have spent wishing, hoping, and praying for this image. Since childhood, I have imagined myself as a mother and I never once questioned the attainability of this role. I blame naivety, but I always assumed I would easily become pregnant and have as many children as I wished, no questions asked. Wrong. As you guys know, life can through you a curve ball and teach you lessons that you never wished to be taught. Because of these experiences, my heart now has a fifth chamber that beats for all of the women, men and families who have struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss. I can honestly say that becoming a mother has, and will forever be, the greatest and most amazing triumph I will ever experience. I pray this little boy will grow to know the joy he has brought.

 So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.
 
Galatians 6:9

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What does the mother of a newborn do to save time? See answer below

She cuts her hair-short!
So long to excessive straitening and blow-drying and hello to extra time for something much more essential, coffee!

My What Good Friends You Have

The best mirror is and old friend. ( Not my words.) I couldn't agree with this statement more. I am so blessed to have a handful of friends who have stuck with me through good times and bad. Over the past two years especially, I have never valued and appreciated these people more. You don't have to remind that I can be difficult and Lord knows I have my faults, but my friends are kind of enough to see through them and allow me in their lives regardless.  What a blessing!
I believe I read somewhere that if you have a friend for more than ten years, then it is likely you will remain friends for life. I hope this is true. I couldn't imagine life without my very best friend, Rachel. She is a dear and a treat- plus she is a tad bit fierce and I can relate to that.
(I will have to post a Throwback Thursday photo soon, just to show you how way back we go. Yikes!)

With all of this said, I am simply reminding you to shower your friends with love and support. You will never know how much he/she truly appreciates you.
 Disclaimer- I have several, wonderful, amazing friends, my  husband including, that hold a special place in my heart. I am simply highlighting one of them today. Please do not become unfriendly to me because you are not mentioned here. : )

Our Nest

I'm finding myself more and more grateful for my sweet home these days. Shamefully I often get caught up in planning for future upgrades and considering this one "our starter home", but recently I have become thankful, more than ever, to have a safe, loving place to raise my family. This house will be Charleston's first address and the special place where we brought him to from leaving the hospital. With this in mind, I will learn to become more appreciative of what I have, and ultimately, learn to live in the moment.